VAULT-31758: Store when a node is removed in the raft stable store

[miagilepner]

Description

This PR has a raft node write to its stable store when it's been removed. When a raft backend is created, the backend reads this value from the stable store to set the removed flag. If you try to add back a raft node that's been removed to a cluster, it will error (instead of returning a successful status without doing anything).

TODO only if you're a HashiCorp employee

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[kubawi]

LGTM!